新概念英語視頻教程

1. Be enthusiastic. Show interest in the person you meet. Don’t hold back or be afraid to show that you’re excited about something. In fact, people often see passion as a charming sign of strength and inspiration. Showing your enthusiasm by smiling or incorporating friendly humor will make you seem approachable and easygoing.

1.熱情。對(duì)見面人展現(xiàn)興趣。不要克制或害怕展示你對(duì)某事物的激動(dòng)之情。事實(shí)上，大家常常將激情看作是力量和鼓舞的迷人跡象。通過微笑或友好的幽默展現(xiàn)你的熱情，這能夠讓你看起來平易近人。

2. Show respect. People want to feel respected before they reciprocated. Be polite and show manners with please and thank you and don’t just focus your manners towards the person you meet. Make sure to treat everyone around you well, too as it shows a lot about who you are. For example, if you’re out for dinner, be sure to treat your waiters well, not only your date.

2. 表示尊重。大家都希望在受到別人尊重后，再給予相同尊重。要有禮貌，多說請(qǐng)和謝謝，還有，不要只對(duì)你的會(huì)面對(duì)象展現(xiàn)禮貌。確保友好地對(duì)待你身邊的每一個(gè)人，因?yàn)檫@很大程度上展現(xiàn)了你的內(nèi)在品質(zhì)。例如，如果你們外出吃飯，除了禮貌對(duì)待約會(huì)對(duì)象外，請(qǐng)一定禮貌對(duì)待服務(wù)員。

3. Be open to new ideas. Openness is an inviting trait, so give new experiences a shot. You don’t have to lie and be enthusiastic about it if you didn’t enjoy it, but let people know that you’re willing to try something new with them. This will also encourage them to be open to your suggestions as well. Engaging in new activity together is a great conversation starter and can create a sense of closeness.

3. 接受新觀點(diǎn)。開放的態(tài)度是一種誘人的品質(zhì)，所以嘗試一下新的體驗(yàn)。如果不喜歡，不必撒謊或假裝喜歡，但一定要讓對(duì)方知道你希望和對(duì)方嘗試新的事物。這樣也會(huì)鼓勵(lì)他們接受你的建議。共同參與新的活動(dòng)是一個(gè)好的對(duì)話的開端并能創(chuàng)造出一種親密感。